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Pregnant Girl

A Story of Teen Motherhood, College, and Creating a Better Future for Young Families

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A NPR BOOKS WE LOVE 2021 Selection
“[T]his book is so much more than a memoir . . . . Her prose has the power to undo deep-set cultural biases about poverty and parenthood.”—New York Times Book Review

An activist calls for better support of young families so they can thrive and reflects on her experiences as a Black mother and college student fighting for opportunities for herself and her child.
Pregnant Girl presents the possibility of a different future for young mothers—one of success and stability—in the midst of the dismal statistics that dominate the national conversation. Along with her own story as a young Black mother, Nicole Lynn Lewis weaves in those of the men and women she’s worked with to share a new perspective on how poverty, classism, and systemic racism impact teen pregnancy and on how effective programs and equitable policies can help teen parents earn college degrees, have increased opportunity, and create a legacy of educational and career achievements in their families.
After Nicole became pregnant during her senior year in high school, she was told that college was no longer a reality—a negative outlook often unfairly presented to teen mothers. Nicole left home and experienced periods of homelessness, hunger, and poverty. Despite these obstacles, she enrolled at the College of William & Mary and brought her 3-month-old daughter along. Through her experiences fighting for resources to put herself through college, she discovered her true calling and founded her organization, Generation Hope, to provide support for teen parents and their children so they can thrive in college and kindergarten—driving a 2-generation solution to poverty.
Pregnant Girl will inspire young parents faced with similar choices and obstacles that they too can pursue their goals with the right support.
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    • Kirkus

      April 1, 2021
      A memoir and activist call to action from a Black entrepreneur who got pregnant during her senior year of high school. As Lewis notes early on, she never doubted that she was headed for college. She was an excellent student, and both she and her parents had high expectations for her future. However, her whirlwind romance with Rakheim led to an unplanned pregnancy, which she discovered a few months before graduation. As she recounts, her mother was gravely disappointed, and her father was unresponsive. To avoid her parents' disapproval, Lewis moved in with Rakheim, who, despite his troubled past, made her feel loved as "a young woman who belonged to someone special." The author graduated from high school, but a lack of economic opportunity, financial safety nets, and family support meant that the couple struggled with homelessness, food insecurity, and overwhelming poverty. Unfortunately, the combination of economic stress and immaturity turned their relationship toxic, and Lewis had to leave. Throughout her pregnancy and new motherhood, the author never gave up on her dream of attending college, and she went on to excel at the College of William & Mary. After graduation, her experiences made it clear to her what she wanted to do with her life: help other teen parents go to college, just like she did. To that end, she founded a policy and advocacy organization called Generation Hope. "What if we said yes instead of no? That was the guiding star in the design of our program," writes the author, whose voice shines with both vulnerability and wisdom. She does not portray herself simply as a victim or a hero but rather as an ambitious, loving, resourceful, Black single mother constantly fighting systemic racism. Throughout the text, she weaves in context drawn from research and her own personal experiences mentoring teen parents, articulating the racist systems that often keep teen parents uneducated, poor, and desperate. A frank, thoroughly contextualized portrayal of Black teen motherhood.

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    • Booklist

      April 1, 2021
      Though author Lewis was an honors student and had multiple college acceptances when she became pregnant during her senior year, everyone told her that college was no longer an option. After fighting with her parents, Lewis began living with her boyfriend Rakheim, a football star who dealt drugs to earn money. With limited options, she and Rakheim slept on friends' floors and struggled to buy food. After her relationship with Rakheim grew dangerous, Lewis reapplied to college. She started her freshman year as a mom to a three-month-old daughter. Lewis continued to face barriers on campus, such as limited options for childcare and inflexible professors. After earning a master's degree, Lewis' experiences inspired her to found Generation Hope, which supports young parents in the pursuit of higher education. Lewis examines the structural issues that young parents face, such as racial disparities in education and healthcare as well as national policy based on 1990s moral panic around teen pregnancy. Told with empathy and nuance, Pregnant Girl is a remarkable and heart-wrenching memoir from an inspiring leader.

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    • Library Journal

      April 2, 2021

      In her first book, Lewis (founder of the nonprofit Generation Hope) investigates root issues that deter young parents from attending college, through the lens of her own experience. Teen parents in general, and Black teen parents in particular, are discouraged in the U.S. from attending college, Lewis argues, by the GI Bill's replacement with private lending, disconnection from families or communities due to shame, and a lack of role models. Lewis shares that she became pregnant as a high school senior and went on to attend the College of William & Mary. The needs of young parents--including child care, housing, and transportation--are never far from her mind; Lewis writes that these factors can make a significant difference in students' wellbeing and continued success. She introduces the concept of student-parents' "time poverty"-- not an issue of time management, but rather a true deficit of hours in the day to accomplish commuting, working, parenting, and studying. VERDICT Lewis interweaves her own account of being a pregnant teen and her extensive research, to tie proposed solutions directly to facts. A complementary work is Melanie Watkins's Taking My Medicine, although Watkins's book is more memoir than research.--Maria Bagshaw, Elgin Community Coll. Lib., IL

      Copyright 2021 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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